Victoria's Problems Mount as Dog Owners Turn on Each Other | It's Me or The Dog
Casper barks at the slightest provocation when playing in his backyard, can dog training expert Victoria Stilwell find a way for him to play without Casper barking down the neighbourhood?
It's Me or the Dog USA: Season 4 Episode 8
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My neighbor had alot of words with us, horrible, degrating words. Even though he sat at our fence line and teased the dogs on purpose , video recorded into my yard and house with my young children. Animal control came down on us so hard I ended up rehoming two of my dogs. 3 years later I fostered two dogs. He called animal control on me and even after I found them forever homes. This is among many of the horrible things he has inflicted on my family. He even admitted he hates dogs. So sometimes it's not the dog, it's the neighbor.
THEY JUST GAVE UP!?
Can you even say the "R" word on DEhave?
I love dogs who doesn't?
yikes, AND he dropped a slur. what a clown
They didn't get married with true love for each other, that is it.
wait... THEY'RE AT 999K SUBS just need 1 thousand more people. and btw i just subbed because i forgot to the 1 month i have been on this account
ok its there fault not the dog
She'll have to throw the whole man away.
Me whaching this and the dog person feelings change after victoria comes Me:WooooooooW😮😮😮😍🥰
I feel like she has a fair criticism of him failing to be consistent but she's making more of it in her own mind than is realistic. It makes me wonder if a parent gave up on her or something so hurtful that's made her oversensitive to the possibility. Whatever the issue, I hope they get some counselling or something.
She’s ridiculous. She must love drama.
Does anyone know what she uses for treats?
She needs to stop talking. He has a valid point, 2 days to get these techniques cemented and be perfect with them is a hard task, especially for a man LOL
Ew
What is victorias secret
The end where Victoria was mad at him for making a couple mistakes, I think he was right in saying "I dont see why ever time there's a mistake we have to start from square one " she needs to have more patience and understanding that things aren't going to be perfect right away and there are gonna be mistakes made. Just cuz hes human, doent make him perfect. We all need to understand that anything (human or animal) needs to be allowed to make mistakes and learn from them.
Aww, pups little face when he walked off with the find it toy 🙁
I want Victoria's vocabulary lol
She clearly wants a divorce, he screwed up the day before and she throws in the towel straight away and even before Victoria was there she was blaming both him and the dog (then backtracked on her statement too).
oof, yikes, that r slur bomb was NOT it chief.
i love casper's ears so much, look at them, they're floppy and remind me of bunny ears!
There has to be a causation between disrespectful partners and dogs having problems. That disrespect is so prevalent in these videos.
Love to watch your videos! Helped me soooooo much! ❤️ There's one issue with my dog which I can't seem to solve it tho and Google couldn't help me either 😅 I don't know why but my dog barks excessively when we leave the city. He used to bark at every single dog but with the desensitization he doesn't even bark when other dogs bark at him unless they lunge at him. So walking him became really pleasing and he loves to meet other dogs. But whenever I go visit my parents for example (they live in a different city) he starts barking at every single dog again. I don't seem to be able to figure out why. In other cities he barks and when we're back in my home city he doesn't...that is so weird. If he only does it around the apartment we live I could say ok he's protecting his territory but no. I can walk him through the whole city and he's fine buy whenever we're in a different city there he goes barking non-stop 😭😭😭
What a hag. At least he's there, all you're doing is causing drama and finding fault. How long you been married? I've got 43 and still learning to pick my battles. You and Casper, especially Casper lost this battle.
I'm A big fan I need u too train my grandmas jack Russell terrier name jax the problems are he jumps on people and he pulls on the leash and he Also bites and scratches and when I take him outside I try too train him but he doesn't listen please help my grandmas dog
HI Victoria Stilwell your the best
why does this show only pick abused looking spouses and abusers? most couples arent like this.
They need to be train more then just 2 days. But you also can’t just pretend it didn’t happen and move on. You need to train them every day and practice the stuff that they are having a hard time on. This goes for animals(pets) and people.
Geez..this couple is very dislikeable.
What type of job do you have exactly? I would really like to be like this!!
Can u help, I think my dog has something wrong with her but my mom's a conspiracy theorist and won't let her go to the vet
Americans are embarrassing! Casper is precious!
No clue why they're even together, so much tension and it's not good for anyone, especially the animals.
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I hope they broke up the guy dose not understand
I love this channel soooo much!!!
Mark-"70% of the time they do." *My battery percentage at 70%
This woman is enjoying blaming her husband way too much. She would rather one up him than make progress.
"has the dog barked?" Yes, yes he did. Two seconds ago.
I get that the woman is mad that he messed up after 2 days. Thats understandable. But she also needs to understand that humans need to take time to learn just like animals do. We dont simply learn things like this after its been a habit for so long. Let him learn from his mistakes and if he still keeps doing it THEN punish him for it
I agree with you except for the punishment term-shes not his mama, but she sure acts like a controlling mother.
Unfortunately, most people who constantly let their dog bark all day every day aren't watching videos like these... 🙄
Now I know why Victoria's last name is "Stilwell.." XD!
She needs a divorce? Hell, they both need a divorce. Amazingly smart dog though!
I heard if you say the person's name three times you get pinned I don't know if this works but I'mma try it cuz I never got a pinned before okay Victoria stilwell Victoria stilwell Victoria stilwell By the way sorry I'm late
Denise.. get a divorce. The dog doesnt need to get trained. Its your husband that needs to be trained :)
there both learning and i feel like the wife doesnt have patience and wants him to be super human or something
She is so negative omg. She wanted him to put his dogs down just because of a barking issue,. I don't like the fact that he used a slur, but damn I hate that lady
If your partner didn’t listen to you, actually hear you, or actually put effort into the marriage, I’m sure many would feel the same way.
Hi Victoria I love your work I wish I grow up like you I love dogs
"Babe, you are the human" xD Divorce him girl
Hi
the dogs are never gonna get help if the owners cant get over themselves
Dude looks like Walmart Joe Rogan
More like a Roto-Rooter plummer 🤷♂️
I don’t get why people don’t train their animals. My neighbor has 3 Great Pyrenees puppies, one of which got PREGNANT at NINE MONTHS OLD. They all bark incessantly and I can hear them from in my house that’s down the street from them. They’re always either in the garage or the backyard and apparently they’ve gotten several noise complaints about it. It would be so much less work to train them.
My post isn't about this video but about the one where Victoria helps 3 overweight dogs to get in shape. 14 months ago I adopted a mixed breed dog (Yorki and ? - who knows) from a foreign country animal shelter. He's 8 years old and has a few severe problems. 1. when I got him he was tiny, only bones covered with skin that was too big for him. He quickly gained weight and right now he's overweight by about 1 - 1,5 kg. Before he arrived I was looking forward to taking him out for walks but he's disabled (in the animal shelter no one noticed that he was limping and having pain when walking). I took him to an orthopaedic vet and was told that years ago one front leg was broken and left to heal by itself. This resulted in a misalignment of the joint. Over time he developed osteoarthritis. He can't walk without pain but the drugs for the pain have side effects, one of which can be pancreatitis (he doesn't tolerate this drugs and already had pancreatitis twice). So, the more weight he gains, the more the pain will increase. Exercise is painful. 4x a day I lure him outside and try to encourage him to take short walks. It's really hard to see him limping and holding up his left paw. But he doesn't tolerate the drugs against the pain. Knowing hunger from past experience he loves to eat (he's not obsessed with food but very focused on it). What can I do? 2. he is an insecure little dog. That's why he's barking, seemingly aggressive ( I think it's it's fear), especially when we meet dogs who are bigger than him. He also barks at people but without this high-pitched panic in his voice. With dogs it's on a whole different level. He gasps, his heart starts to race, he chokes and can't hardly breathe. It's terrible to watch. The vet prescribed CBD oil and overall it helps to reduce his nervousness and keep him calm. But it doesn't help outside. What can I do? How can I help him? TY.
If he is in constant pain because of the leg, it might be better to amputate the leg. Many dogs live fine with three legs, and it might be easier than having pain. Also make sure to indeed keep him a healthy weight, for him it might be better to be on the light side rather than the heavy. But you should consult with a vet as well. For the reactiveness, you could watch other videos or consult with a trainer or verteranarian behaviourist. If you are on facbook, check out the group animal sense: basic training an behavioral problems. Only real, certified trainers answer the questions
part 2?
I would charge more to train problematic people...
Him: makes one mistake but acknowledges it and wants to push forward and try again Her: I'm giving up because you're giving up Make it make sense 🤦🏽♀️
Sounds like she might be used to him giving up on things, so she is conditioned to expect that from him.
Finally a new episode😍
Who wants a dog 😭😭 I want it
This woman doesn't need a dog trainer, she needs a divorce.
But the guy is right she needs to stop bringing everything back and keep going forward. You can't just stop at every little mistake.
On second thought. Somebody please teach this dude how to apologize.
So does the guy, they both need a divorce.
I can see he is very controlling and manipulative.
70% of the time is still bad
What happens when you marry karen.
*ooof, these guys need couple's counselling more than a dog trainer. (and he dropped the r slur too YEESH. not a good look)*
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Can you please come to my house my dog bites me non-stop and it hurts me very much if you can come it will make me very happy❤️
And AGAIN it's the husband ignoring the problem... *sigh*
To be honest that’s real bad when he said That’s what dogs do !
She has honestly helped me so much with my rescue puppy. Wish me luck🤞
Oh jeez... I wait for the next episode on this couple
Wow while he was kinda rude at first I could see why by the end of the video, she is such a nagging annoying lady. Freaking out saying they can NEVER move forward after two incidents lol it takes time to remember new habits. She needs to chillll out.
I watched the episode. This is a build up of 3 years of problems coming to a boiling point. She wants him to take accountability, he wants her to let things go, it’s an unstoppable force and an unbreakable wall.
Find it casper find it find it find it casper find it Victoria: o_____o
Especially when the initial cue was “go find” 😂😂😂
“The dog is doing so great” *dog doesn’t respond to the air command*
Looked up the episode details (S4E6): “Victoria tries to help engaged couple Mark and Denise who recently reunited after 30 years apart. The trouble is, Denise can't stand Mark's two dogs and refuses to marry him until he puts them down!” Well that certainly explains a lot Edit: I bit the bullet & watched the episode bc I was curious. He moved out at the end (they were already living apart, but for the training period he had moved back in) and worked on training the dogs in his own instead of them working as a team. They had a lot of resentment in the relationship. The dogs weren’t that bad, the couple just had no trust. Anyway AMA lol
This is S4 Ep 8 tho...
So quite literally the ultimatium 'it's me or the dogs', then... Wow. In this clip she mentions that he screwed up, and refuses to continue with the training. He is so right, he's being trained, too. While I understand she wanted an acknowledgement for his mistake, quitting was not an option.... but she took it anyway. Hope he spent some very happy years with his perfectly fine dogs, without this b.........
Thanks for giving us the details !❤
@Rossovieta I paid $0.99 to watch it on Amazon prime bc I was curious. She wasn’t pushing for putting the dogs down very hard, she was just saying it to show that she was really at her wits end. She wasn’t gonna force it because she knew it wouldn’t end well.
holyshit this is way too much to take in. I was thinking the woman needed some serious therapy with how impatient and passive aggressive she's been, but this is just pure selfish and evil. The dogs are fine why put them down? and 30 years apart? pretty certain they both an do just fine away from each other another 30 years. Anyway to see the full episode?
The guy: "He doesn't bark all the time" Also the guy: Birds flew over our heads and he could careless He pretty much just stated that what the lady was saying about the dog barking all the time was true
THE END!!! Poor Casper.
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I CAN NOT find the full episode.
Denial makes me so angry, it is a way of avoiding a problem. Even if it is a huge problem that NEEDS to be situated in order for a better outcome. " that's what dogs do", Seriously! Dogs do bark yes, but they don't bark obsessively all the time. A dog that barks too much is a dog that is frustrated, bored and getting lack of proper exercise. I'm with Victoria and Denise on this one, through this show as well as observation I know that if my dogs start to bark too much; time for a nice long walk!
That argument felt so scripted lol
I think it did because they were probably watching what they said. I'm sure there would have been a few F bombs normally, if not worse.
First time I saw a video for this show the same day they released it on DEhave!
Looks like she really likes to drill him about every single mistake he makes.
Run Forrest run
Victoria how do u train a puppy that does not really like food? My 6 month old Yorkie really is so fussy, she will go days and not eat, we give her a drop of honey as she starts to shake from not eating, she does not appear to like meat, peas, celary really small food she will sometimes eat..i might have found the solution it seems she will eat when my big shepherd is eating her food, then she wants it, but i cannot use treats to train my puppy, she does like toys, im really getting worried about her she pnly weighs about 2 pounds, maybe its me as i am so use to my shepherd eating everything in sight and Bambi only eats about a tablespoon of food a day..my vet is closed because of virus, she is very healthy otherwise, but i see u use food yo train food just would not work with her..
@Renae Miller thank you, i will try to find some goat milk and hope she drinks it..she is teething as a tooth came out the other day, i have called 2 vets, one said they were not taking on new clients and the other only a recording saying mailbox was full so could not get through..this corvid 19 virus is ruining everything..even my doctor has locked his office and his phone recorder said if your sick go to hospital.
@misterpitters ..yes i am worried, i phoned 2 vets, one keep saying on a recorder mailbox full qnd the other one said they were not taking on new clients...today she did eat a little bit because my German Shepherd started eating her food, then she wanted it, she is so tiny that someone said she would only eat a table spoon a day of food, right now she wants to play all the time so i figure she cannot be sick and maybe its just me a worried mom over her baby hardly eating to feeding a Shepherd 4 cups of kibble a day , yesterday she ate 4 peas and 2 little pieces of cheese thanks to my big dog, her mouth is so tiny she can hardly chew a pea, she is teething maybe her mouth is sore, she is so adorable we love her so much and are so worried and i will keep trying different foods till i find something she likes and keep looking for a vet that is opened...thank you for your post.. hopefully she will get a appetite soon and i can start training her.. I've been on yorkie videos, they say they are picky eaters, abd what they feed their Yorkie but never how much they should be eating in q day, i have no experience with these little breeds, only German Shepherds..
You should research portion sizes for your dog & talk to a vet! Someone must be open, if your dog isn’t eating that’s very serious!
Try mixing some goat milk in with the food or just serve on the side. If your pup is going days without eating I would contact your vet asap.
Victoria needs to come to my building, my neighbors leave their dog CRYING for HOURS. Problem solved A BIT after I had a word with them😤
“That’s what dogs do” 😂😂😂 bruh try training it
Here in Canada if your dog is barking for more then twenty minutes. A neighbour can call the dog pound and have someone come out and give them a fine or a warning.
@Rebster ! while I appreciate your comment, here’s my reply. Dogs bark. It’s in their genes. They bark to alert others to someone near their property or when they sense a threat. My dogs view my neighbour as a threat because he yells at us constantly. Also, barking is only a nuisance when I allow it to continue, which I don’t. We do our best to quiet them and if they won’t stop then we bring them in. My dogs are never left outside for hours continuously allowed to bark. If they are outside and quiet then we leave them. But when they start barking we check why their barking and then either bring them in or wait for the person to disappear. A dog bark measures around 80-90 decibels, whereas an air horn is around 130 decibels. So who’s really causing the noise?
@Kerry Motton I mean the airhorn is annoying, but having dogs bark outside every two hours is also highly annoying. You should just teach your dogs not to bark if you have neighbors (or like once or twice max, not more than that(
@Kerry Motton I'm curious. Are they trying to make the dog bark so they can complain, or do they think the horn will somehow stop the dog?
@SDIGF3 the air horn is a nuisance but I have to catch it on video. I’m waiting for cameras to arrive any day
@Kerry Motton Look up the noise ordinances in your town. Of course, escalating a fight isn't always good.
I tried figuring out what the husband did... Everyone messes up during training, whether it's the human or the dogs. His wife just seemed so uncertain and did not believe in him at all. That's not gonna help someone get better. I feel like they just aren't happy with each other.
I think so too. To me it seemed like he was trying to work it out but the wife was too stubborn
Apparently their dog growled and there were hiccups when trying to teach and play with him, and even though the wife is also a human, she somehow didn't think that she could correct the bad behavior and that her husband had to. I think they just get off on telling each other what to do...
anyone else have deja vu watching this, is this a re-uploaded video?
When will u get 1million
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Every summer in the UK my dogs get kicked out all day , with Toys and lots of fresh water.. unless it’s way too hot.
Be careful. There are a lot of incidents of dogs being stolen from gardens.
Mine doesn't. She'd run off. There is no fencing on our garden if you can even call it a garden, it's a small hill of grass at the front of the horse. We could put her in the field with the horse, but he likes to chase dogs, he may trample her so we can't leave her there either. She does get to have a run in our indoor riding arena though.
Ladies you want to know why your husband wants no part of things? Thats why.
How do you drain a high energy puppy when it full of deep snow outside and freezing?
Man: *uses the r word* Me: Don't you ever use that word again!
@Sarah Jane Schofield Oh! I've been hammering my head over what it was! "Ret***ed"! I've been called that so many times by a few people in my life that It no longer registers, but derogatory it is. I am partially disabled from birth.
@Sarah Jane Schofield
@Arιa Soc it’s at 7:43. It’s a seriously offensive slur against people with disabilities, which I will not repeat.
I didnt even notice it..what word did he use?
@Kum quat I know it doesn't.
The poor dog was so confused like where are you taking my toys?
It's so sad... :'(
Why is no one talking about that. *THIS CHANNEL IS ALMOST REACHING TO 1 MILLION* 🥳
@Jenaleen Simon they did?
THEY REACHED 1 MILIONNNNN 👑
and im helping it
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That lady needs to get over herself.
Oml these owners nag like children
Unfortunately, you act like this woman You're definitely going to be cheated on and left for another person! People, please don't extra annoy nag your partner until they leave you. You have turned into a Bitter Betty that now eats their feelings. Choose Happiness over pettiness
The woman is ridiculous is she for real? Humans cant mess up once? She is to much and unrealistic.
My doggo tor a whole through the wall also how do we contact her????
Google Victoria Stilwell positively dog trainers. She has a website where you can find trainers in a lot of different locations who train with the same methods Victoria uses. There is so much useful information there too!
*cliffhanger